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Collaborative Family Law: A Constructive Approach to Resolution
The collaborative process is an alternative dispute resolution method designed to help separating or divorcing couples reach mutually acceptable agreements without going to court. It is grounded in respect, transparency, and a shared commitment to resolving issues in a constructive and efficient manner.
In the collaborative process, each party retains a specially trained lawyer. All participants—including both clients and their lawyers—enter into a written agreement committing to resolve matters outside of litigation. This means that if the process breaks down and either party chooses to go to court, the collaborative lawyers must withdraw, and new counsel must be retained. This structure encourages everyone involved to stay focused on settlement.
Depending on the needs of the family, neutral professionals such as financial specialists, parenting experts, or mental health coaches may be brought in to support informed decision-making and productive communication.
Key Benefits of the Collaborative Process
Preserves Relationships: Particularly important when children are involved, the process fosters respectful communication and cooperation, helping to maintain workable co-parenting relationships.
Client-Centered Solutions: Agreements are tailored to the unique needs and priorities of your family, rather than imposed by a judge.
Privacy and Confidentiality: Unlike court proceedings, which are public, the collaborative process is private and discreet.
Efficiency and Cost Control: By avoiding litigation, many families resolve matters more quickly and with greater control over costs.
Reduced Stress: The process is designed to minimize conflict and promote problem-solving, making it less adversarial than traditional court proceedings.
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We have several offices conveniently located in the heart of each city located across the GTA
Custody and Access
“Custody” refers to parental decision-making in relation to children in four major areas: health, religion, education, and major recreational activities. Custody can take several forms: Sole custody, where one parent is responsible for all decision-making; Joint custody, where parents make decisions jointly or through parallel parenting, wherein one parent is responsible for some decisions (e.g. […]
Disclosure and Failure to Disclose Assets
The importance of full and frank financial disclosure cannot be understated: it is the cornerstone of financial issues in family law. Parties are required to provide all financial disclosure openly and honestly during negotiations, mediation, arbitration, or litigation. Courts do not look kindly upon people who hide, deplete, or fail to disclose assets in order […]
Enforcement of Orders
For many, having a court order in hand finalizes the underlying issues of a family law matter. Unfortunately, in some circumstances court orders are disobeyed or disregarded. Custody and access orders that are not being followed could give rise to the offender being held in contempt. A contempt finding may result in fines or imprisonment. […]
Equalization of Net Family Property and Property Division for Married Spouses
This applies only to married parties. In Ontario, marriage is treated like a business partnership. When the marriage ends, the assets accumulated during that partnership are subject to a process called “equalization.” Equalization attempts to ensure the assets are reviewed so that each party leaves the marriage on equal financial footing. Generally speaking and following the exchange of full and frank financial disclosure, both parties calculate and compare the growth in their respective net worth from the date of marriage to the date of separation. The individual with a higher net worth must give to their estranged spouse one half of the difference so that the parties are in an equal financial position in the context of the relationship.
Grandparents’ Rights
Under some circumstances, grandparents can apply to a court for custody, access, and/or child support for a child (in cases such as if a parent dies, is unavailable, is an incredibly poor caregiver, or if the grandparents previously cared for the child and their access was cut off). It is most common for a court […]
High Value and Complex Assets and Income Streams
Complex income streams and assets comprised of partly or wholly owned corporations, employee stock options, offshore holdings, securities, trusts, pensions and so forth, can add a layer of complexity to a family law matter. Understanding how to deal with these assets and incomes in a family law context can be difficult, particularly considering the financial […]
Independent Legal Advice
When you’re ready to sign a domestic contract, like a separation or cohabitation agreement, you might feel worn out from negotiations and disclosures. However, rushing to sign can lead to issues. After investing time and effort, it’s crucial to aim for the best standard in domestic contracts. Independent legal advice is key to achieving this. […]
Joint Venture and Trust Claims
Although common law spouses do not share property in the same way as married spouses, it may still be possible for a common law spouse who accumulated less wealth to make a claim against a common law spouse who accumulated greater wealth over the course of the relationship. Stephen Durbin and Associates can help clarify […]
Maintaining Child Support and Section 7 Expenses
Child support are the periodic payments made by separated parents to the other parent, for the day-to-day expenses associated with raising children. The Federal Child Support Guidelines require monthly child support payments from any parent whose children spend more than 60% of their time with the other parent. In matters where the children spend roughly […]
Marital Fraud
Marital Fraud: If your spouse deceived you as to his or her identity or marital status (i.e., that he/she was actually married) when he/she married you, you may have grounds to dissolve your marriage and seek an annulment as opposed to a divorce. An annulment and a divorce are two distinct legal concepts. An annulment […]
Mobility
A mobility issue arises where one parent wishes to move to a distant, new residence with the children. This is among the most complex issues in family law, given that relocation will inevitably affect the non-relocating parent’s access rights. In determining whether to allow a parent to relocate, a multi-factor analysis is applied to many […]
Same-Sex couples
The dissolution of a marriage or common law relationship between same-sex parties is treated identically to that of an opposite-sex couple. Under s.2 (1) of the Divorce Act, the definition of spouse is “either of two persons who are married to each other,” but “spouse” can have other meanings in family law. The definition of […]
Spousal Support
Following separation, one party of a married or common law couple may be required to provide financial assistance to the other party by paying spousal support. Depending on the situation, the purpose of spousal support may take different forms, including helping ease the transition of the lower-earning spouse into a life of greater independence; providing […]
Uncontested Divorce in Ontario
Divorce can feel overwhelming, but many separations in Ontario are resolved without conflict or lengthy court battles. An uncontested divorce is often the simplest, fastest, and least stressful path — whether both spouses agree to end the marriage or one spouse simply does not participate in the process at all.
Understanding Costs in Ontario Family Law
Navigating family court proceedings in Ontario can be complex, and many people are surprised to learn that costs—where one party is ordered to contribute to the other party’s legal expenses—are a routine part of the process.
Variation of agreements and orders
It is common in family law for the terms of a separation agreement or a final order to need to be changed at some point. A variation in an order is appropriate where there has been what is known as a “material change” in circumstances (and had that change been known at the time the […]
Our Collaborative Family Law Services
Our firm is committed to guiding clients through the collaborative process with clarity and compassion.
We offer:
Initial Consultations: To assess whether the collaborative process is appropriate for your situation and to explain how it works.
Full Representation in Collaborative Matters: We advocate for your interests while working toward mutually beneficial outcomes.
Negotiation and Agreement Drafting: Including separation agreements, parenting plans, and financial settlements.
Coordination with Neutral Professionals: We work closely with trusted financial specialists, parenting experts, and family professionals when needed.
Ongoing Legal Support: Providing advice and guidance at every stage, ensuring you are fully informed and confident in your decisions.
The collaborative process offers a forward-looking path that prioritizes dignity, respect, and practical solutions.
If you are seeking a more constructive way to resolve family law matters, our team is here to help.
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